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قديم 26-10-2010, 04:49 PM   #1
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love yourself


Learning to love yourself starts with making a conscious decision, an intention to become happy and lead a fulfilled life. When you do not love yourself and suffer from low self esteem, it is almost impossible to ever reach the potential that you suspect you have.

“Love yourself first and everything falls into line.”

When you make a decision to love yourself, you are really saying that you want to come alive. You accept that you are responsible for the outcomes that you experience in your life and would like yourself to shine from living a fulfilling life.

So if you’ve decided on loving yourself but are as equally stumped on how to love yourself, as I was back then, here are 17 ways which I believe can be helpful:

1. Fall in love with yourself. Think about what makes you You. Just like a flower that needs watering to grow, learn to nurture yourself in every way. Love yourself for all the good that you see and accept your flaws and the fact that you are imperfect. This does not mean that you do not learn to change from your shortcomings; instead, you are being gentle and kind to yourself despite all your “flaws”. Look in the mirror and fall in love with the reflection that is You.

“2. Eliminate Self Criticism. Do you often berate yourself over the tiniest thing? Is there a little voice inside your head that often tells you that you are no good because you are stupid or make mistakes. If you find that you criticize yourself often, make an effort to stop the self criticism.

3. Be Kind And Positive. When you start to think kindly and positively about yourself, the love you have for yourself just grows. Make it a habit to praise yourself everyday, while in the front of the mirror. Because of such thoughts, you naturally undertake empowering actions that support your development.

4. Acknowledge Your Effort. It’s not always about winning or having success in everything that you do. Many times, it is the effort that counts! Acknowledge that you’ve done your best, even if you have failed to produce tangible results.

5. Let Go Of Worry. Loving yourself requires you to let go of your worry. It is a horrible way to live a life filled with constant worrying. I can attest to that! Worry does not help in any way. It cannot, on its own, make things happen. Only wise actions can! So instead of worrying, spend time thinking about what you can do to help in the situation. If the situation is beyond your control, then ask the Universe for your desired outcome and let things work out on their own. Things will come to be, if they are meant to be.


6. Trust Yourself. Have confidence in your abilities. Know that you have the ability to make important changes for yourself, for as long as you put your heart to it. You can also support yourself by visualizing desired outcomes.

“Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do.”

7. Forgive Yourself. If you have made mistakes in the past that had caused you to feel less worthy, then you need to forgive yourself. All of us make mistakes; so there really is no need to beat yourself up over them. Or if you’ve been carrying around a baggage of emotional hurt because of a childhood trauma, learn to forgive yourself.


8. Be Truthful To Yourself. Loving yourself requires you to be truthful about your own feelings. If you are happy, acknowledge the joy. If you are sad, acknowledge the sorrow. When you are truthful about your feelings, you do not try to lie to yourself or seek to bury your negative emotions. Instead, acknowledging what you feel provides a good guide to what your thoughts are. And as we all know, thoughts can be changed, so that healing and self growth can take place.

9. Grow Spiritually. When you spend time growing spiritually, loving yourself is an automatic thing. You become more peaceful, connected, kind, loving and compassionate. You nurture a mind that grows more beautiful by the day. How to not love yourself in the process?

10. Make Positive Affirmations Everyday. Post affirmations that can help raise your self esteem everyday. For instance, say this to yourself “I love and accept myself completely and unconditionally.” Read your affirmations out loud several times a day.

11. Express Gratitude. Express gratitude for the person that you are. For instance, cultivate an appreciation for your strengths and gifts. Also, feel a sense of gratitude that you are alive and well, and fully capable of making a difference in your life.

Bring Your Dreams to Life!

12. Nurture Your Dreams. Why deny yourself your dreams? When you nurture your dreams, you would love the life that you are leading. Every moment that you live is a joy because you are expressing yourself fully.

13. Boost Your Self Confidence. Make a deliberate attempt to look for opportunities that can help improve your sense of Self. For instance, if you are particularly good at doing something, set aside more time to indulge and improve your skills on it. Knowing that you have particular gifts can boost your self esteem.

14. Relax. You need to give yourself space to take breaks every now and then. If you spend your time working, without paying attention to your health, it also means that you do not love yourself well enough to take care of your own body. Fill your time with silence, soothing music and visions of beauty; anything that nourishes your Soul.

15. Have Fun. Inject some fun into your life. Life is meant to be an enjoyable. Don’t take life or yourself too seriously. If you can think of life in this manner, you automatically relax and quit worrying over things that do not matter.

16. Look After Your Body. It is important that you strengthen yourself with proper nutrition and regular exercise. Your body is a temple and you should treat it with respect, love and care. It has been found that the lack of self love is often the root causes of conditions like eating disorders, obesity or even terminal diseases.

“Take care of your body. It’s the only place you have to live.”

17. Learn To See Beauty. When you learn to see beauty in every thing, you will also see beauty in yourself. Hence, stop to smell the flowers. Notice everything. Feel everything. The pink blush of the flowers in your garden, the greenness of the plains, the whisper of the gentle wind, or the myriad hues of an evening sky.



Here is a good affirmation to read and reflect on…..

“I am Me. In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me. Everything that comes out of me is authentically mine, because I alone chose it — I own everything about me: my body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions, whether they be to others or myself. I own my fantasies, my dreams, my hopes, my fears. I own my triumphs and successes, all my failures and mistakes.

Because I own all of me, I can become intimately acquainted with me. By so doing, I can love me and be friendly with all my parts. I know there are aspects about myself that puzzle me, and other aspects that I do not know — but as long as I am friendly and loving to myself, I can courageously and hopefully look for solutions to the puzzles and ways to find out more about me.

However I look and sound, whatever I say and do, and whatever I think and feel at a given moment in time is authentically me. If later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought, and felt turn out to be unfitting, I can discard that which is unfitting, keep the rest, and invent something new for that which I discarded. I can see, hear, feel, think, say, and do. I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be productive, and to make sense and order out of the world of people and things outside of me.

I own me, and therefore, I can engineer me. I am me, and I am Okay.”
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قديم 28-10-2010, 02:01 PM   #2
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افتراضي رد: love yourself


AMAZING
essay
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قديم 28-10-2010, 02:16 PM   #3
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افتراضي رد: love yourself


eventually someone response

thanks alot sis

التعديل الأخير تم بواسطة sandrella soso ; 28-10-2010 الساعة 02:17 PM
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قديم 29-10-2010, 04:36 AM   #4
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OMG OMG OMG

this is really an impressive report

really nice

thanx for bringing such good stuff in here

keep it up
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قديم 29-10-2010, 09:34 AM   #5
sandrella soso sandrella soso غير متصل
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افتراضي رد: love yourself


thanks to you sis
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قديم 01-11-2010, 03:15 AM   #6
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افتراضي رد: love yourself



I am in love with myself

thanx
sandrella


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قديم 01-11-2010, 03:35 AM   #7
sandrella soso sandrella soso غير متصل
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افتراضي رد: love yourself


you're welcome
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قديم 01-11-2010, 02:34 PM   #8
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افتراضي رد: love yourself






Knowing LUV myself will makes me LUV everything else, cuze LUV brings a positive things that will surrounded ME and every one around ME

i actually take care of these things as you said previously started from :

Be Kind And Positive.
Have Fun or find it in every thing
Trust Yourself
Grow Spiritually
Nurture Your Dreams
See Beauty

BUT don’t Forgive yourself, promise that you will do things batter next time ..

i LOVE ME 4 ME



Thanks for this topic

LUV'd it


...Best regards
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قديم 01-11-2010, 02:48 PM   #9
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افتراضي رد: love yourself


I love me

Redeemed myself


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قديم 22-11-2010, 02:44 PM   #10
sandrella soso sandrella soso غير متصل
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افتراضي رد: love yourself


thanks for all
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قديم 22-11-2010, 11:40 PM   #11
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Very interesting

Thank you
قلــــب~صــــافي غير متصل   رد مع اقتباس
قديم 23-11-2010, 06:37 PM   #12
sandrella soso sandrella soso غير متصل
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افتراضي رد: love yourself


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Very interesting

Thank you
thanks to you Sis
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قديم 23-11-2010, 07:00 PM   #13
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I love myself
very nice
thank u sandrella soso
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قديم 23-11-2010, 07:03 PM   #14
sandrella soso sandrella soso غير متصل
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افتراضي رد: love yourself


اقتباس:
المشاركة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة الحب الحيران مشاهدة المشاركة
I love myself
very nice
thank u sandrella soso
keep it long time as u can


be like that

and thanks for reading my essay , i hope u enjoy it
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